doc: sync deprecation numbers with v14.x

Syncs master and v14.x for DEP0143 - `Transform._transformState`.
Bumps `module.parent` from DEP0143 to DEP0144 on master. Adds
missing DEP number and  metadata for DEP0145: `socket.bufferSize`.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34368


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>