deps: upgrade openssl sources to 1.1.1j

This updates all sources in deps/openssl/openssl by:
    $ cd deps/openssl/
    $ rm -rf openssl
    $ tar zxf ~/tmp/openssl-1.1.1j.tar.gz
    $ mv openssl-1.1.1j openssl
    $ git add --all openssl
    $ git commit openssl

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37412


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Beth Griggs <bgriggs@redhat.com>