tools: make comma-dangle ESLint rule more stringent …

We've been having a lot of nits lately asking people to add trailing
commas, so it's probably time to incrementally make the comma-dangle
rule more stringent.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37088


Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>