tls: specify options.name in validateKeyCert

This commit addresses a TODO added by Ruben Bridgewater in commit
c6b6c921 ("lib: always show
ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE received part") which was to prefix the name of
the invalid argument with 'options.'.

This commit also switches the order of the parameters to validateKeyCert
to be consistent with other validators.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20284


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>