dns: allow `--dns-result-order` to change default dns verbatim

Allow the `--dns-result-order` option to change the default value
of verbatim in `dns.lookup()`. This is useful when running
Node.js in ipv6-only environments to avoid possible ENETUNREACH
errors.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38099
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31566


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>