doc: fix some links

* Add missing reference ids.
* Un-link impossible wildcard link.
* Hardcode a link that baffles our new doc toolchain (`[][]` part
  is parsed as an empty link now instead of two-dimensional array sign).

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27141


Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>