src: fix check for accepting Buffers into Node’s allocator

This condition was incorrect. We currently take the fallback
path in default Node builds, which always works, but may come with
some overhead, whereas the intention was that we use the fast path
in this condition.

This is causing issues for embedders, because we would erroneously
try to take the fast path when they don’t provide a Node.js-style
`ArrayBufferAlloactor`, and crash as a consequence of that.

This also requires us to relax the check in the debugging ArrayBuffer
allocator a bit, because since d117e41e, 0-sized ArrayBuffers
may actually point to allocations of size 1. Previously, that wasn’t
caught because the fallback path circumvented our ArrayBufferAllocator.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/commit/84e02b178ad14fae0df2a514e8a39bfa50ffdc2d#r33116006

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27174


Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>