build: build benchmark addons like test addons

Build the addons for benchmarks in the same way that the addons for
tests are built.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29995
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/build/issues/1961
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/commit/53ca0b9ae145c430842bf78e553e3b6cbd2823aa#commitcomment-35494896


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Beth Griggs <Bethany.Griggs@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>