src: add aliased-buffer-overflow abort test

Added native extension similar to
test/addons/stringbytes-external-exceeded-max.
Added an abort test to regression test the non overflow behaviour.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31740


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>