src: check for overflow when extending AliasedBufferBase

When resizing an aliased_buffer check if the new size will overflow.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31740


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>