n-api: implement napi_is_detached_arraybuffer

This implements ArrayBuffer#IsDetachedBuffer operation as per ECMAScript
specification Section 24.1.1.2 https://tc39.es/ecma262/#sec-isdetachedbuffer

Closes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29955

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30613
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33061
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29955


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Chengzhong Wu <legendecas@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>