n-api: add `napi_detach_arraybuffer`

As ArrayBuffer#detach is an ecma spec operation
([Section 24.1.1.3](https://tc39.es/ecma262/#sec-detacharraybuffer)),
it might be good to have it in N-API.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29674
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29768
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33061


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gabriel Schulhof <gabriel.schulhof@intel.com>