inspector: more conservative minimum stack size

PTHREAD_STACK_MIN is 2 KB with musl, which is too small to safely
receive signals. PTHREAD_STACK_MIN + MINSIGSTKSZ is 8 KB on arm64,
which is the musl architecture with the biggest MINSIGSTKSZ so let's
use that as a lower bound and let's quadruple it just in case.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33720
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27855


Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Eugene Ostroukhov <eostroukhov@google.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>