deps: upgrade to libuv 1.35.0

Notable changes:

- The UV_UDP_MMSG_CHUNK UDP flag has been added.
- Support has been dropped for FreeBSD < 10.
- The FreeBSD and Linux system call logic has been simplified to assume the
  presence of features covered by libuv's minimum system requirements.
- Listening on IPC pipes is no longer allowed.
- Fix iOS and Android builds.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32204


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Santiago Gimeno <santiago.gimeno@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>