src: discard tasks posted to platform TaskRunner during shutdown

Discard tasks silently that are posted when the Isolate is being
disposed.

It is not possible to avoid a race condition window between
unregistering the Isolate with the platform and disposing it
in which background tasks and the Isolate deinit steps themselves
may lead to new tasks being posted. The only sensible action
in that case is discarding the tasks.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31752
Fixes: https://bugs.chromium.org/p/v8/issues/detail?id=10104
Refs: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2061548
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31795
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30909
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31853


Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>