test: add test-benchmark-napi

Also makes sure that the napi benchmark is built before running jstest.

Skipped on windows since n-api benchmarks aren't built there yet.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23585


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>