util: improve .inspect() array grouping

This improves a couple minor things:

* Arrays that contain entries other than `number` or `bigint` are
  ordered to the left instead of the right.
* The bias towards more columns got increased. That mainly increases
  the number of columns for arrays that contain lots of short entries.
* Columns are now more dense in case they would otherwise have extra
  whitespace in-between two columns.
* The maximum columns got increased from 10 to 15.
* The maximum number of columns per `compact` was increased from
  3 to 4.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28070
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/27690


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>