deps: cherry-pick 9b21865822243 from V8 upstream

Original commit message:

    [api] Add optional data pointer to GC callbacks

    This can be useful when there may be multiple callbacks attached by
    code that's not directly tied to a single isolate, e.g. working
    on a per-context basis.

    This also allows rephrasing the global non-isolate APIs in terms
    of this new API, rather than working around it inside `src/heap`.

    TBR=hpayer@chromium.org

    Bug:
    Cq-Include-Trybots: master.tryserver.chromium.linux:linux_chromium_rel_ng
    Change-Id: I2e490ec40d1a34ea812f25f41ef9741d2116d965
    Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/647548


Reviewed-by: Yang Guo <yangguo@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Adam Klein <adamk@chromium.org>
    Commit-Queue: Yang Guo <yangguo@chromium.org>
    Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#47923}

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/15391


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>