deps: cherry-pick b6158eb6befae from V8 upstream

Original commit message:

    [heap] Move gc callbacks from List to std::vector

    Bug: v8:6333
    Change-Id: I4434c6cc59f886f1e37dfd315a3ad5fee28d3f63
    Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/634907


Reviewed-by: Ulan Degenbaev <ulan@chromium.org>
    Commit-Queue: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
    Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#47601}

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/15391


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>