deps: upgrade to libuv 1.41.0

Notable changes:

- The IBM i platform has been promoted to a Tier 2 platform.
- libuv is now built with `-fno-strict-aliasing`, and recommends
  that projects using libuv do the same.
- `uv_fs_mkdir()` now returns `UV_EINVAL` for invalid directory
  names on Windows.
- `uv_uptime()` now returns the correct value on OpenVZ containers.
- Windows 8 is the new minimum supported version of Windows.
- Bind errors are now reported from `uv_tcp_connect()`.
- The `uv_pipe()` function has been added.
- The `uv_socketpair()` function has been added.
- `uv_read_start()` error handling has been unified across
  Windows and Unix.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37360


Reviewed-By: Santiago Gimeno <santiago.gimeno@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Juan José Arboleda <soyjuanarbol@gmail.com>