test: run abort tests

Currently, tests in test/abort do not run in CI.

This change configures the test runner to not write core files for abort
tests and to run them.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14013
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/14012


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Yuta Hiroto <hello@about-hiroppy.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>