test: improve test-abort-backtrace

Improve error message by showing output when frames output does not meet
expectations.

Since we can't tell at runtime if we have the correct libc for
backtraces, allow an empty backtrace and run the test on all platforms.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14013


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
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