build: make full-icu the default for releases

Release builds specifically set the `--with-intl=` configure option
instead of relying on the default. Explicitly set to `full-icu`.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29522

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29887


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