tools: add arrow function rules to eslint

This commit enables the following rules:
* arrow-parens - requires parens around arrow function arguments
* arrow-spacing - ensures a space on each side of the =>
* no-arrow-condition - prevents accidental use of => in cases
where the user really intends to use <=

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/4813


Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>
Reviewed-By: Stephen Belanger <admin@stephenbelanger.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Saúl Ibarra Corretgé <saghul@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <mic.besace@gmail.com>
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Reviewed-By: Evan Lucas <evanlucas@me.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Roman Reiss <me@silverwind.io>