test: print resource stack on error

When running tests with NODE_TEST_WITH_ASYNC_HOOKS and the same asyncId
is detected twice print the stack traces of both init() calls. Also
print if the resource is the same instance.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14208


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>