dgram: remove listeners on bind error

This avoids piling up `'listening'` event listeners if
`.bind()` fails repeatedly.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/30209

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30210


Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>