[coro][CoroSplit] Use `llvm.lifetime.end` to compute putting objects on the...

[coro][CoroSplit] Use `llvm.lifetime.end` to compute putting objects on the frame vs the stack (#90265)

The current logic for using lifetime intrinsics to determine whether a
coroutine alloca should live on the coroutine frame or stack doesn't
consider `llvm.lifetime.end`. As a result, some allocas are incorrectly
placed on the stack even though their lifetimes may outlive the stack.
For example, SimplifyCFG may generate code that drops the corresponding
`llvm.lifetime.end` of an `llvm.lifetime.start`, and that code is
incorrectly handled by the existing logic.

To fix this, new logic is introduced where if an alloca's address is
escaped, and there is a path from an `llvm.lifetime.start` to a
coroutine suspend point (e.g. `llvm.coro.suspend`) without an
`llvm.lifetime.end`, then we know the object lives beyond the suspension
point and therefore must go on the coroutine frame.

Fixes https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/86580