[clang][AArch64] multilib: fix deduction of "-march=" option (#81474)

The deduced "-march=" option always started with aarch64, which is not a
valid value. There was also no way to distinguish between armv8-r and
armv8-a. After this commit, the deduced "-march=" option will start with
greatest available "armv*-a" value or "armv8-r".