[ARM] Add CostKind to getMVEVectorCostFactor.

This adds the CostKind to getMVEVectorCostFactor, so that it can
automatically account for CodeSize costs, where it returns a cost of 1
not the MVEFactor used for Throughput/Latency. This helps simplify the
caller code and allows us to get the codesize cost more correct in more
cases.