docker: fix packages deps

it's because of an automake bug in Fedora Rawhide docker image:
https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1903527
I hope it's temporary change and it will be fixed on next release.

docker: update PMDK version to current master

it's required by pmreorder, which we install with PMDK.

to include fix for rpm packaging.

Update docker images

cmake: prioritize TBB_DIR to find TBB module

rolling is actually the latest release (which we have in separate image).
See for more info: https://hub.docker.com/_/ubuntu

to make sure we use the same source of docker images. Change to
OS-specific repos for opensuse and fedora, which is not updated
regularly on Docker Hub.

Extend contributing.md to encourage putting major changes to ChangeLog

docker: remove hub package from Fedora Rawhide

if TBB_DIR is set, disregard any way of finding TBB in the system.

[readme] fix wrong argument for make

Arguments starting from '-D' are typically CMake options.

cmake: replace, not add Ob flag in WIN32

without this change we got build warning (D9025).
With this change comes a small refactor of the 'add_flag' macro,
to allow easily add 'replace_flag' macro.

it's required by run-doc-update.sh which is not executed on this OS
and apparently this package is not available in repository.

Add example for usage cmap with pmem string

gha: change IMG_VER from latest to tag version on release

Extend CMake prints

cmake: add /Zc:__cplusplus only on windows

ref: https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1923435

and remove redundant check - default value is set to current bin dir.