Fix a deadlock in ModuleList when starting a standalone lldb client/server (#148774)

Summary:
There was a deadlock was introduced by [PR
#146441](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/146441) which changed
`CurrentThreadIsPrivateStateThread()` to
`CurrentThreadPosesAsPrivateStateThread()`. This change caused the
execution path in
[`ExecutionContextRef::SetTargetPtr()`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/10b5558b61baab59c7d3dff37ffdf0861c0cc67a/lldb/source/Target/ExecutionContext.cpp#L513)
to now enter a code block that was previously skipped, triggering
[`GetSelectedFrame()`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/10b5558b61baab59c7d3dff37ffdf0861c0cc67a/lldb/source/Target/ExecutionContext.cpp#L522)
which leads to a deadlock.

Thread 1 gets m_modules_mutex in
[`ModuleList::AppendImpl`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/96148f92146e5211685246722664e51ec730e7ba/lldb/source/Core/ModuleList.cpp#L218),
Thread 3 gets m_language_runtimes_mutex in
[`GetLanguageRuntime`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/96148f92146e5211685246722664e51ec730e7ba/lldb/source/Target/Process.cpp#L1501),
but then Thread 1 waits for m_language_runtimes_mutex in
[`GetLanguageRuntime`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/96148f92146e5211685246722664e51ec730e7ba/lldb/source/Target/Process.cpp#L1501)
while Thread 3 waits for m_modules_mutex in
[`ScanForGNUstepObjCLibraryCandidate`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/96148f92146e5211685246722664e51ec730e7ba/lldb/source/Plugins/LanguageRuntime/ObjC/GNUstepObjCRuntime/GNUstepObjCRuntime.cpp#L57).

This fixes the deadlock by adding a scoped block around the mutex lock
before the call to the notifier, and moved the notifier call outside of
the mutex-guarded section. The notifier call
[`NotifyModuleAdded`](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/96148f92146e5211685246722664e51ec730e7ba/lldb/source/Target/Target.cpp#L1810)
should be thread-safe, since the module should be added to the
`ModuleList` before the mutex is released, and the notifier doesn't
modify the module list further, and the call is operates on local state
and the `Target` instance.

### Deadlocked Thread backtraces:
```
* thread #3, name = 'dbg.evt-handler', stop reason = signal SIGSTOP
  * frame #0: 0x00007f2f1e2973dc libc.so.6`futex_wait(private=0, expected=2, futex_word=0x0000563786bd5f40) at    futex-internal.h:146:13
   /*... a bunch of mutex related bt ... */    
   liblldb.so.21.0git`std::lock_guard<std::recursive_mutex>::lock_guard(this=0x00007f2f0f1927b0, __m=0x0000563786bd5f40) at std_mutex.h:229:19
    frame #8: 0x00007f2f27946eb7 liblldb.so.21.0git`ScanForGNUstepObjCLibraryCandidate(modules=0x0000563786bd5f28, TT=0x0000563786bd5eb8) at GNUstepObjCRuntime.cpp:60:41
    frame #9: 0x00007f2f27946c80 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::GNUstepObjCRuntime::CreateInstance(process=0x0000563785e1d360, language=eLanguageTypeObjC) at GNUstepObjCRuntime.cpp:87:8
    frame #10: 0x00007f2f2746fca5 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::LanguageRuntime::FindPlugin(process=0x0000563785e1d360, language=eLanguageTypeObjC) at LanguageRuntime.cpp:210:36
    frame #11: 0x00007f2f2742c9e3 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Process::GetLanguageRuntime(this=0x0000563785e1d360, language=eLanguageTypeObjC) at Process.cpp:1516:9
    ...
    frame #21: 0x00007f2f2750b5cc liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Thread::GetSelectedFrame(this=0x0000563785e064d0, select_most_relevant=DoNoSelectMostRelevantFrame) at Thread.cpp:274:48
    frame #22: 0x00007f2f273f9957 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::ExecutionContextRef::SetTargetPtr(this=0x00007f2f0f193778, target=0x0000563786bd5be0, adopt_selected=true) at ExecutionContext.cpp:525:32
    frame #23: 0x00007f2f273f9714 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::ExecutionContextRef::ExecutionContextRef(this=0x00007f2f0f193778, target=0x0000563786bd5be0, adopt_selected=true) at ExecutionContext.cpp:413:3
    frame #24: 0x00007f2f270e80af liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Debugger::GetSelectedExecutionContext(this=0x0000563785d83bc0) at Debugger.cpp:1225:23
    frame #25: 0x00007f2f271bb7fd liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Statusline::Redraw(this=0x0000563785d83f30, update=true) at Statusline.cpp:136:41
    ...
* thread #1, name = 'lldb', stop reason = signal SIGSTOP
  * frame #0: 0x00007f2f1e2973dc libc.so.6`futex_wait(private=0, expected=2, futex_word=0x0000563785e1dd98) at futex-internal.h:146:13
   /*... a bunch of mutex related bt ... */    
   liblldb.so.21.0git`std::lock_guard<std::recursive_mutex>::lock_guard(this=0x00007ffe62be0488, __m=0x0000563785e1dd98) at std_mutex.h:229:19
    frame #8: 0x00007f2f2742c8d1 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Process::GetLanguageRuntime(this=0x0000563785e1d360, language=eLanguageTypeC_plus_plus) at Process.cpp:1510:41
    frame #9: 0x00007f2f2743c46f liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Process::ModulesDidLoad(this=0x0000563785e1d360, module_list=0x00007ffe62be06a0) at Process.cpp:6082:36
    ...
    frame #13: 0x00007f2f2715cf03 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::ModuleList::AppendImpl(this=0x0000563786bd5f28, module_sp=ptr = 0x563785cec560, use_notifier=true) at ModuleList.cpp:246:19
    frame #14: 0x00007f2f2715cf4c liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::ModuleList::Append(this=0x0000563786bd5f28, module_sp=ptr = 0x563785cec560, notify=true) at ModuleList.cpp:251:3
    ...
    frame #19: 0x00007f2f274349b3 liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Process::ConnectRemote(this=0x0000563785e1d360, remote_url=(Data = "connect://localhost:1234", Length = 24)) at Process.cpp:3250:9
    frame #20: 0x00007f2f27411e0e liblldb.so.21.0git`lldb_private::Platform::DoConnectProcess(this=0x0000563785c59990, connect_url=(Data = "connect://localhost:1234", Length = 24), plugin_name=(Data = "gdb-remote", Length = 10), debugger=0x0000563785d83bc0, stream=0x00007ffe62be3128, target=0x0000563786bd5be0, error=0x00007ffe62be1ca0) at Platform.cpp:1926:23
```

## Test Plan:
Built a hello world a.out
Run server in one terminal:
```
~/llvm/build/Debug/bin/lldb-server g :1234 a.out
```
Run client in another terminal
```
~/llvm/build/Debug/bin/lldb -o "gdb-remote 1234" -o "b hello.cc:3"
```

Before:
Client hangs indefinitely
```
~/llvm/build/Debug/bin/lldb -o "gdb-remote 1234" -o "b main"
(lldb) gdb-remote 1234

^C^C
```

After:
```
~/llvm/build/Debug/bin/lldb -o "gdb-remote 1234" -o "b hello.cc:3"
(lldb) gdb-remote 1234
Process 837068 stopped
* thread #1, name = 'a.out', stop reason = signal SIGSTOP
    frame #0: 0x00007ffff7fe4a60
ld-linux-x86-64.so.2`_start:
->  0x7ffff7fe4a60 <+0>: movq   %rsp, %rdi
    0x7ffff7fe4a63 <+3>: callq  0x7ffff7fe5780 ; _dl_start at rtld.c:522:1

ld-linux-x86-64.so.2`_dl_start_user:
    0x7ffff7fe4a68 <+0>: movq   %rax, %r12
    0x7ffff7fe4a6b <+3>: movl   0x18067(%rip), %eax ; _dl_skip_args
(lldb) b hello.cc:3
Breakpoint 1: where = a.out`main + 15 at hello.cc:4:13, address = 0x00005555555551bf
(lldb) c
Process 837068 resuming
Process 837068 stopped
* thread #1, name = 'a.out', stop reason = breakpoint 1.1
    frame #0: 0x00005555555551bf a.out`main at hello.cc:4:13
   1   	#include <iostream>
   2
   3   	int main() {
-> 4   	  std::cout << "Hello World" << std::endl;
   5   	  return 0;
   6   	}
```

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