util: allow wildcards in NODE_DEBUG variable

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/17609
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17605


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>