errors: use ERR_OUT_OF_RANGE for index errors

Remove ERR_INDEX_OUT_OF_RANGE in favor of ERR_OUT_OF_RANGE which is
capable of providing more detail. (In one instance, use
ERR_BUFFER_OUT_OF_BOUNDS which is more accurate in that one instance.)

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22969


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Weijia Wang <starkwang@126.com>