build: uvwasi honours node_shared_libuv

Fix #39248.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39260


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>