tls: add min/max protocol version options

The existing secureProtocol option only allows setting the allowed
protocol to a specific version, or setting it to "all supported
versions". It also used obscure strings based on OpenSSL C API
functions. Directly setting the min or max is easier to use and explain.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24405


Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>