module: lazy load 'getOptionValue' in initializeLoader

This enables loading this module during early bootstrapping.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33212


Reviewed-By: Guy Bedford <guybedford@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>