doc: add dmabupt to collaborators

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37377


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>