test: swap the order arguments are passed to assert

Documentation for assertions rule actual values should be passed first
followed by the expected value. This commit update the assertions the
changed file contains to comply to that rule. Changes also label the
assertions.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23580


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>