src: update NODE_MODULE_VERSION to 96

Major V8 updates are usually API/ABI incompatible with previous
versions. This commit adapts NODE_MODULE_VERSION for V8 9.3.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/CTC/blob/master/meetings/2016-09-28.md

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39469


Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>