http2: set nghttp2_option_set_no_closed_streams

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23134
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/23116


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>