stream: invoke buffered write callbacks on error

Buffered write callbacks were only invoked upon
error if `autoDestroy` was invoked.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30596


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>