trace_events: add file pattern cli option

Allow the user to specify the filepath for the trace_events log file
using a template string.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19145
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18480


Reviewed-By: Ali Ijaz Sheikh <ofrobots@google.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>