deps: copy all openssl header files to include dir

All symlink files in `deps/openssl/openssl/include/openssl/`
are removed and replaced with real header files to avoid
issues on Windows. Two files of opensslconf.h in crypto and
include dir are replaced to refer config/opensslconf.h.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22320


Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>