doc: add note about removeListener order

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/21635

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23762


Reviewed-By: Matheus Marchini <mat@mmarchini.me>
Reviewed-By: Vse Mozhet Byt <vsemozhetbyt@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>