src: add virtual desctructor to Options class

Currently the Options class has a virtual function but no virtual
destructor which means that if delete is called on a Options pointer
to a derived instance, the derived destructor will not get called.

The following warning is currently being printed when
compiling:

warning: delete called on non-final 'node::PerIsolateOptions' that has
virtual functions but non-virtual destructor [-Wdelete-non-virtual-dtor]
    delete __ptr;

This commit adds a virtual destructor.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23215


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>