stream,zlib: do not use _stream_* anymore

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/36618


Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>