module: self referential modules in repl or `-r`

Load self referential modules from the repl and using the preload flag
`-r`. In both cases the base path used for resolution is the current
`process.cwd()`. Also fixes an internal cycle bug in the REPL exports
resolution.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32261
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31595


Reviewed-By: Guy Bedford <guybedford@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jan Krems <jan.krems@gmail.com>