test: update OpenSSL3 error messages for 3.0.0+quic

This commit updates two OpenSSL 3.0.0 error messages required for
OpenSSL 3.0.0+quic.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40093
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/build/pull/2759


Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>