test: update test expectations for OpenSSL 1.1.0

Some errors in the two versions are different. The test-tls-no-sslv3 one
because OpenSSL 1.1.x finally does version negotiation properly. 1.0.x's
logic was somewhat weird and resulted in very inconsistent errors for
SSLv3 in particular.

Also the function codes are capitalized differently, but function codes
leak implementation details, so don't assert on them to begin with.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16130
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18622


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>