lib: honor setUncaughtExceptionCaptureCallback

This api does not alter the behavior of diagnostic
report configured on uncaught exceptions.
This is deemed as a bug. Honor this API.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35588
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35595


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>